What Is A Soul Mate?
Everyone seems to want to connect with their soul mate. But what exactly is a soul
mate? Do people who like the same things automatically qualify as soul mates? Is a soul mate only a one shot
moment and if you don't meet up you never get another chance? Do you need some astrological chart to find one?
Do you have to live a long life of experiences in order to be able to identify someone as a soul mate? If you
go by all the books written, online sites constructed, tests conducted and all the columns used to give
advice, finding a soul mate is somewhat of a challenge. But it need not be as daunting as most make it.
Understanding a few basic things will help you in your quest.
Typically, you would label the idea person as a soul mate who connects with
you on a deep emotional level. That alone is enough to scare the dickens out of most. I mean it's hard enough
for us to know and be in touch with ourselves So how on earth are we to expect chance
being to hold the key that unlocks our inner self? It's possible to run into a couple who feels they found the
Yin to their Yang. They talk about how much the two of them have in common. How they like the same
things. How they even finish each others sentences. That doesn't necessarily mean they are soul mates. If you hang
around anybody long enough, you can learn their ways as conform to their actions. A soul mate has deeper ties than
True soul mates appreciate each others differences without trying to find the
commonality of them. They just work well together. It doesn't mean they don't have to work at their relationship.
It means they are not threatened by the others individuality. Usually, the above couple tends to have problems
when the other person doesn't go along with their desires and write it off as they just grew apart.
But do soul mates grow apart? If you connected on that level, why would a simple disagreement or
discovery of a different pattern cause a rift in your union? A fellow soul mate understands their partner's
right to be different and fully express themselves in a way that complements the other.
Soul mates don't have to compromise in a manner that causes the other
discomfort. A soul mate may have everything in common with their partner or they may have nothing in
common with them. It's that underlying essence that binds them. Soul mates may disagree verbally or in body
gestures, but they quickly resolve their problems due to the soul-ish bond they have with each
other. Each soul mate is not superficial. That's why it's very difficult for another suitor to come
between them. The outward appearance is just a passing fancy. While they appreciate surface beauty, what
they share inside transcends that fleeting attention catcher.
Most soul mate encounters take time to discover. This microwave
type generation makes finding a soul mate rather hard. But if you can muster the patience, it's
well worth the wait. What do you think defines a soul mate?